1. When you fall inlove, fall inlove with a personality
What I mean by this is quite obvious. When you fall inlove with someone make sure you are falling inlove with their personality and mind, not the outer shell. Loving someone for what they look like is going to land you in some hot water. Remember that once you have something new and shiny, you play with it for a while and then the novelty wears off. If you fall inlove with a personality, people rarely change and that means you will be inlove forever.
2. Once you lose respect and trust for your partner move on
I know some people are very forgiving, but forgetting is the hardest part, once trust is broken, it is extremely difficult to build it up again. You live in fear of being hurt time after time and if you have been promised a change and your partner hurts you again you will never forget it.
3. Search for someone who has similar morals as you
Opposites do not attract, there are a few exceptions, yes, but it wont always work. If you do not see eye to eye on a certain important point it will be the route of all your arguments. If you are mature and you date someone whose maturity level is not the same as yours, you will run into trouble.
4. Never settle
If you are unhappy, make a change, only you can create your own happiness. Never forget your morals, never feel bad because you do not agree with something your partner does. If it is a cause of problems do not be afraid to leave if it hurts you too much and you fear being alone.
5. You deserve the best
They say every pot has its lid. Your perfect partner is out there. God will send you the right one when you are ready.
6. Love selflessly
If you truly love someone, there is nothing that you will not do to make them happy as long as it does not make you unhappy.
7. You need to be happy in order to make your partner happy
If you are not happy with yourself it will manifest and eventually corrupt your relationship. Make sure you are in the right frame of mind and that you love yourself before you begin a relationship. You have to love yourself in order to love someone else.
8. Movie romances are a lie
We watch movies where people fall madly inlove, love at first sight does not exist and if it does then I have never experienced it. Okay, I suppose I cannot make a call on this if I have never experienced it but I am 28 years old and this has never happened to me and I don't know whether it ever will.
I would love to have your comments on my post. I know everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I welcome them.
Angie xxx
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